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Social Anxiety: How can Hypnosis Help?

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Being confident in social situations, job interviews, and public speaking is a valuable skill that can help you excel in your personal and professional life.

Unfortunately, many people struggle with social anxiety, which can make these situations feel overwhelming and challenging.

Social anxiety, also known as social phobia, is a common and affects millions of people worldwide.

It is characterised by a persistent and intense fear of social situations, such as parties, public speaking, or meeting new people.

People with social anxiety may feel self-conscious, embarrassed, or afraid of being judged by others, which can lead to avoiding social situations altogether.

The good news is that there are several effective strategies that you can use to build your confidence and succeed in these situations.

I will explore some of the most effective techniques for building confidence in social situations and job interviews, as well as tips for public speaking.

Fake It Until You Make It.

The first strategy for building confidence is to “fake it until you make it.”

This means that you should act as if you are confident, even if you don’t feel that way.

This might sound counterintuitive, but research has shown that acting confident can actually make you feel more confident over time.

This is because our thoughts and behaviours are closely connected, and when we act confidently, our brains begin to believe that we are confident.


Another effective strategy for building confidence is visualisation. Visualisation involves creating mental images of yourself succeeding in the situation that you are nervous about.

For example, if you are nervous about a job interview, you might visualise yourself confidently answering questions and impressing the interviewer.

Visualissation can help to reduce anxiety and build confidence by creating positive mental images and expectations.


Breathing exercises can also be helpful for reducing anxiety and building confidence.

When we are anxious, our breathing often becomes shallow and rapid, which can increase feelings of anxiety and panic.

By practicing deep breathing exercises, you can slow down your breathing and calm your nervous system.

One simple breathing exercise involves inhaling deeply through your nose for a count of four, holding your breath for a count of four, and exhaling slowly through your mouth for a count of four. Or you can do Mindful Breathing by simply noticing the rise and fall of you belly as you breath.


Hypnosis is another technique that can be helpful for building confidence.

Hypnotherapy involves inducing a trance-like state in which your mind is highly suggestible.

During hypnosis, a trained professional can suggest positive affirmations and images to help build your confidence and reduce anxiety.

There is scientific evidence to support the use of hypnosis for anxiety and confidence-building, but it is important to work with a qualified professional to ensure that it is safe and effective for you.

Other Tools for Managing Social Anxiety

There are several other tools and techniques that can be helpful for managing social anxiety and building confidence. These include:

Positive self-talk:

Instead of focusing on negative thoughts and self-doubt, try to focus on positive affirmations and self-talk. For example, you might repeat a mantra like “I am confident and capable” to yourself before a job interview or public speaking event.

Exposure therapy:

Exposure therapy involves gradually exposing yourself to the situations that make you anxious, in a safe and controlled way. Over time, this can help to desensitise you to the anxiety triggers and build confidence.

Cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT):

CBT is a type of therapy that can be helpful for managing anxiety and building confidence. CBT involves identifying and changing negative thought patterns and behaviours that contribute to anxiety.

Tips for Public Speaking

Public speaking can be particularly challenging for many people, but there are several tips and techniques that can help you succeed. These include:

Practice, practice, practice:

The more you practice your speech or presentation, the more confident you will feel. Practice in front of a mirror, with friends or family, or in front of a camera.

Focus on your audience:

Instead of focusing on your own nervousness, try to focus on your audience and their needs. Think about what they want to hear and how you can deliver your message in a way that will resonate with them.

Ways to overcome Social Anxiety & the role of hypnosis tools

Social anxiety can develop for various reasons, including genetic factors, brain chemistry, environmental factors, and life experiences.

Studies have shown that social anxiety may run in families, suggesting a genetic component.

Brain imaging studies have also revealed differences in the brains of people with social anxiety compared to those without it, indicating a possible chemical imbalance in the brain.

Environmental factors, such as childhood trauma, can also contribute to the development of social anxiety. For example, a person who experienced bullying or rejection as a child may develop social anxiety as a coping mechanism.

Negative life experiences, such as job loss or relationship breakdown, can also trigger social anxiety.

Social anxiety is treatable.

Here are some tips to help manage and overcome social anxiety:

Seek Professional Help:

Talking to a mental health professional, such as a counsellor or hypnotherapist, can help you develop strategies for managing social anxiety. They may suggest techniques such as exposure therapy or cognitive-behavioral therapy to help you overcome your fear of social situations.

Practice Relaxation Techniques:

Deep breathing, meditation, and progressive muscle relaxation can help reduce anxiety symptoms.

Challenge Negative Thoughts:

Social anxiety often involves negative self-talk, such as “I’m not good enough” or “Everyone is judging me.” Challenging these thoughts and replacing them with positive affirmations can help you build self-confidence. Cognitive Restructuring can help to change negative thoughts and replacing them with positive affirmations.

Gradual Exposure:

Gradually exposing yourself to social situations that trigger your anxiety can help you build confidence and reduce your fear over time. Start small, such as talking to a stranger in a coffee shop, and gradually work your way up to larger social situations.

Relaxation Techniques:

  • Breathing exercises
  • Meditation
  • Progressive muscle relaxation / body scan
  • Exposure therapy
  • Mindfulness: Focusing on the present moment and accepting your thoughts
  • Hypnotherapy
  • Fake it until you make it
  • cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT)
  • Counselling
  • Positive Affirmations

Hypnosis and Counselling for Social Anxiety

Hypnosis and counselling can be effective treatments for social anxiety.

Hypnosis involves inducing a trance-like state to access the subconscious mind and change negative thought patterns.

It can help people with social anxiety develop a more positive self-image and reduce their fear of social situations.

Counselling, such as cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT), can also be effective in treating social anxiety. CBT helps people identify negative thought patterns and replace them with more positive ones. It can also involve exposure therapy, where a person gradually exposes themselves to social situations that trigger their anxiety.

Different Types of Social Anxiety: Social anxiety can manifest in different ways

Performance Anxiety: Fear of performing in front of others, such as public speaking or performing on stage.

Generalised Anxiety: Fear of everyday social situations, such as meeting new people or attending social gatherings.

Specific Phobias: Fear of specific social situations, such as using public restrooms or eating in front of others.

Contact Genie to find out how hypnotherapy can help you.

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About Genie Pepper

I support people to achieve their goals through hypnotherapy and counselling, incorporating science-backed positive psychology tools and behavioral therapy. I assist my clients to find the keys they need for wellbeing and to develop a positive flourishing life.